What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 06:08
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
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*** Questions About Me ***
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Which is the correct Tamil New Year, Thai-1 or Chithirai-1?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
What is it that gives a man who is a submissive cock sucker his most pleasure?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Were you ever in love with your teacher?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Why did my ex replace me so fast?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Why do men choose to marry a plain Jane woman over a pretty woman?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
What have I done wrong? How can I start over?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
What is your juiciest sex story?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
What makes you feel guilty the most?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Would you read them together?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
29- How superstitious are you?
What is your favorite position? Why?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
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23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
Any that are a turn off?
Nothing too Serious
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
The Ice Breaker Questions
If you win, what will you make them do?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
How old are you? Male or Female?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
If yes, what?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
*** Random Questions ***
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
39~ What are your love languages?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Please share Did you stop?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Family Relation Age Play
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
Any that are a turn off?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
52~ What are your hobbies?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?